Mother’s Day is a day to celebrate being a mother, generally with those little ones that gave you the title. Flowers, handmade cards, thoughtful gifts, and breakfast in bed are the usual in our house and don’t get me wrong, I totally appreciate them. But then the day typically flows like any other Sunday and I’m on Mom-duty again.
What if you this celebrated Mother’s Day WITHOUT YOUR KIDS?!?! After all, it is a day for YOU. You should get to do what you want!
Ways to Celebrate Mother’s Day Without Kids
Leave this kids at home and plan one or more of these kid-free options for a very special Mother’s Day.
Book a package with the works. Get a massage and a facial. Get a blow out and sip cucumber infused water. Splurge on the deluxe mani/pedi package. Whatever you normally feel you don’t have the time for; do it. This is your day!
Hit the free weights. Walk or run on the treadmill. Check out a group fitness class you haven’t had time for in the past. Take some laps in the pool and sit in the sauna for as long as you’d like. Attempt the yoga class you’ve never had patience for. No rushing out the door to pick up your kids in all your sweaty glory. Shower and actually blow dry your hair before you leave.
If you are able, book a weekend away to Vegas. Grab a cheap flight and stay in whatever hotel is in your budget. Split it with a couple like-minded female friends and this mother’s day weekend just turned into a girlfriend getaway. Can’t do Vegas, check out French Lick for luxury in Indiana.
Maybe a far off destination isn’t in your budget but a hotel room for the night is. Alone in a hotel room is definitely something that moms don’t get very often. Order dinner (or dessert) to the room and sleep in a huge, comfy bed–ALONE! Wake up when your body tells you to; not when your toddler climbs on top of you.
Grab your girls and head to a kid free house for girly drinks and gossip–or coffee and a poetry reading; whatever you are into. Retell old stories of the past and laugh about the crazy stuff you did growing up. We’re sure the kids will sneak their way into conversation and that’s great! Lament in the joys of motherhood with those who are along for the ride with you.
Brunch with Girlfriends
Grab those gal pals and head to a kid-free brunch. Get fancy at one of our favorite spots like the Cake Bake Shoppe or keep it casual and low key. It’s your day; you decide.
Visit an amusement park or go zip-lining, bungee jumping, or skydiving. Hitch a ride in a helicopter or check out a racing experience at the Speedway. Face your fears and build your confidence with a heart pumping experience.
Go to the Movies
Is there a new release you’ve been dying to see but it’s not rated PG and your partner isn’t too keen on it? Go by yourself. You won’t have to share your popcorn or haul any little feet to the bathroom in the midst of the climactic scene.
Enjoy a Solo Meal
It’s totally okay to eat at a restaurant alone. It can be very relaxing. Maybe you’re the only one in your household who enjoys good Sushi? Go devour those California rolls with zero guilt. No need to make everyone happy; it’s your day!
Check out a Bar
You will definitely not find any children in a bar! Grab a book and order a drink. Sip and read–or just scroll Facebook–without interruption. Meet up with a girlfriend or enjoy the peace of solitude. Don’t forget to check out the local comedy club lineup or other adult only venues. Remember to drink responsibly–let Uber or Lyft your personal driver for the evening.
Netflix & Wine
Kick the kids–that you love with your whole heart and would die for–out of the house for the day. Send them with dad or to the grandparent’s house. Snuggle up with a glass (or bottle) of Rose, all that hidden Halloween and Easter candy, and binge anything you want. No fighting for the remote on Mother’s Day!
I cannot recall the last time I went to the beach or to a park without my kids. Imagine how relaxing it would be to pack a picnic for one and find a shady spot under a tree. Read a trashy magazine or that novel you’ve been putting off. Slather on some sunscreen and just lay on your beach towel all day long. You could build a sandcastle without your little one crashing into it, nap or just do nothing but people watch. Not having to worry about your kid falling from the monkey bars or drowning in the lake is a refreshing change.
Take a Hike
In our area, there are plenty of places to hike that are relatively safe to go at it alone. We don’t have the elevation as say Colorado or Montana so you should feel safe enough along the trails and likely not fall off a cliff. Make sure your cell is fully charged and you have plenty of water and trail mix. Check out a state park or something a bit too rugged for the little ones. Bask is all that nature has to offer.
A boat for one? Yes, please! Rent a kayak or a canoe and lazily drift down the river. Take on some rapids for more of a challenge. Either way, enjoy nature and the beauty of the solitude. Peace will surround you!
If you’re an avid angler, grab your tackle box and favorite pole to go fishing. Head out to a stocked pond and leisurely cast your line all afternoon. Make a stop at a local bait shop or pick up some new lures along the way.
Take a Nap
It’s okay to stick with tradition and let the kids bring breakfast in bed. Then stay there. Stay in your jammies, read a book, eat something, nap, and repeat. Make sure your bedroom door has a working lock. Do not jump up to help when you inevitably hear someone cry.
Take an Art Class
There are many area venues with kid friendly art classes. Why not try one that isn’t? Glass blowing classes are fun and have a bit of danger associated with them. Not ready to blow glass? Try creating a fused glass piece instead like a platter, glass tile, or jewelry.
Take ANY Class
Now is the perfect time to check out a new hobby. Classes for flower arranging, cooking, cake decorating, jewelry or macramé are abundant in the area. Schedule a one-time only class or book a series to expand your expertise.
DIY Candles & Soaps
Take your indulgence home after you pour your own candle or craft your own soap. The time alone at the shops is a great way to feel productive and treat yourself on the mother of all days!
Book a chocolate tasting at SoChatti and then bring some home to melt and dip fruit into. You could share if you want, but don’t feel like you need to. Late night strawberry dipping is perfectly fine.
Wine, Beer, & Whisky Tours
We are blessed with a handful of local vineyards and wineries that offer tasting year round. Hop on a Brew Bus and take a tour of select area breweries or hit a regional distillery for beer and whisky options. We love Daniel’s Vineyard, Hotel Tango Distillery, and these local brew pubs.
Give back to your community in a number of ways. We feel it’s important to teach our children about volunteering, and there are numerous places to take them, but some places are more “adult.” Check in with the women’s shelter, a nursing home, or homeless center. Besides fundraising most charitable organizations need people to help maintain the property, answer phones, clean or serve their community and patrons in other ways. Going without the kids will also give you a feel for how kid friendly it is and maybe you can continue your work with the whole family.
We love visiting museums, especially with our kids. Watching their little brains soak in all that culture is astounding. But, it can be such a challenge to actually read about the installment or piece of work with little ones tugging at your sleeve to move on to the next thing. Go alone and soak in all the exhibits at your own pace. Immerse yourself in the art and sculpture pieces. Take your time and really get a feel for the artist’s intent.
Tour Your City
Park in a centralized location and take a walking tour of your own town. Or visit a nearby town with plenty to offer. Indy has Mass Ave and Broad Ripple amongst many other fantastic neighborhoods but if you venture outside the city you’ll find plenty to enjoy in towns like Plainfield, Greenfield, Greenwood or Carmel.
Mother’s Day is all about you, mom. All the girlfriend gatherings and day trips alone sound amazing but if you can swing a sitter why not drag your husband along? Movies, museums, classes and cuisine are good for couples too. Book a couple’s massage, grab a bite at a swanky restaurant, or visit a brewery together. Mother’s Day is what you want it to be and if you want date night, have it!
Moms deserve to be celebrated all year long. We are not selfish though, we will settle for one Sunday a year in May. Once you rally your girlfriends and pitch these ideas this could become a yearly tradition. Take the pressure off dad for planning something special and it’s a win-win. If spending the day dressed up and brunching with your family, your mom, your mother-in-law and grandparents then have at it. This year (and likely next) I’ll celebrate my way. Bring on the handmade cards and breakfast in bed. After that I’ve got it covered.