Indy Date Night Ideas
Looking for the best date night ideas in Indy? We’ve got you covered from the south side of Indianapolis to the north side and everywhere around the loop. You’re sure to find a something you and your date will love. Check back often, we add new ideas to the list every month! Our Date Ideas Guide contains some affiliate links to help you find the best deal on your date nights!
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Adventurous Date Nights in Indy
Aerial Silks Circus Class
Grab your friends and get flying at the Aerial Silks Classes at Cirque Indy. This fitness class is anything but your average workout class. You’ll incorporate all kinds of fun moves, moves like the ones you see in circus acts and in the summer olympics. This would make a great girls night out, bridal shower starter or bucket list activity. Right now there’s a sweet deal on an intro class. Try it for only $11!
Run for It
If you’re the competitive and sporty type, consider signing up for a 5K or 1/2 marathon together. You’re sure to find a fun themed run that you can bond over or train together to run. Find fun runs near me.
Performances and Other Fun at the White Rabbit Cabaret
The White Rabbit Cabaret is pretty famous for playing host to burlesque shows but you might also find Bingo games, standup and other live performances.
Row, Row Your Boat
Go canoeing or kayaking. We rent canoes and kayaks in Noblesville.
Zipline Date Ideas in Indy
Go Ape and Koteewi are two places you can zip line outdoors, plus the obstacle course nature of it all will have you really getting to know one another.
Swing Dance at the Fountain Square Theatre
Several nights each month, swing dancing takes place at the Fountain Square Theatre building, dance lessons are available too!
Tour Lucas Oil Stadium
Take a tour of Lucas Oil Stadium if it fits your schedule. Sports fans and even non-sports fans will appreciate this huge venue that is home to the Indianapolis Colts NFL team.
First Fridays in Indy
Stroll local art galleries on the first Friday night of every month. Many galleries offer complimentary snacks or beverages. You’ll see many artistic feats. We love Harrison Center for the Arts and Stutz among others.
Picnic at Fort Ben
Pack up a picnic lunch, (homemade or store bought, it doesn’t matter) and head to Fort Ben for a picnic. You can hike, walk, fish or even ride a horse. The scenery is beautiful and ever changing all year.
Take a Segway Tour
Segway tours are a fun spin on a city tour. Check them out downtown near the Canal/White River State Park.
Feel the Love in a Gondola Ride
Romantic or fun, depends on how you look at it. A downtown Indy Canal gondola ride is tops on the list for a picture perfect romance story on the canal.
Go Horseback Riding with the Wind in Your Hair
Horseback riding always seems like the plot for the best romance novels. Let us know how it goes! You can ride at Fort Ben or ride a horse at Natural Valley and others.
Drag Race Your Own Car
Wild Wednesdays at Lucas Raceway are open to any licensed driver and their own street-legal vehicle. It’s not about winning, it’s about the thrill of the race!
Rent a Boat
Take your date on a special boat ride at Geist Reservoir or Morse Reservoir. Rent a pontoon boat, go swimming or fishing and have a picnic on the water. You can even get dockside service for lunch or dinner.
Best Date Restaurants in Indy
Spoke & Steele
This extraordinary lounge style restaurant shares a building with Le Meridien. Spoke & Steele is a neighborhood restaurant that serves downtown residents and visitors alike with delicious food, craft cocktails and a one of a kind dining experience. From large groups to intimate dinners, the ambiance of Spoke & Steele is like nowhere else in Indy. Check out the Steve McQueen Room and the Barrel Room. Both of these rooms can be requested by anyone who walks in the door, if they’re available, you can eat there!
The mixologists at Plat 99 inside the Alexander Hotel will create a cocktail perfectly designed for your tastes. Small plates pair with beverages from a range of eras – a history of cocktails – leading up to the current day’s amazing mixes. The chic upscale vibe is the perfect background for a chill chat night or the beginning of a night on the town.
This chic restaurant offers street food inspired contemporary Asian fare. What does that mean? This means delicious dishes like Beef Tartare, Curry Ramen and Jalapeno Spam Steamed Buns. The cocktails are award winning too.
If you love Latin food, the menu at Livery is where you’ll want to be. When the weather is nice, ask for a seat under the stars on the rooftop.
Also recommended by our friends who go on dates: Pioneer, Tinker Street, Festiva, Union 50, Delicia, Blue Beard, Garden Table, Vida.
Flirty & Fun Date Night Spots in Indy
Main Event Entertainment
Bowling, 100 arcade games, laser tag, a full restaurant, a full bar, concessions, prize redemption for tickets and so much more! Adults love Main Event for everything the kids love about it, and more!
Schedule a special event or a fun night out at Punch Bowl Social. This cool but casual restaurant has a club vibe with game-room activities, all of which pair well with delicious food and giant punch bowls full of adult beverages. Rent a lane for bowling, rock out in a private karaoke room, or play shuffleboard, giant Jenga, or skee ball.
Tee Off at Top Golf
Even a golfing novice will enjoy the fun and games at Top Golf. Plus, the food and beverage selection is tops! Snuggle up between rounds and stay warm even in the winter.
Duckpin Bowling is an Indy Classic
If you haven’t tried Duckpin Bowling yet, add this to your date night idea list stat! It’s a really fun spin on bowling in a vintage and rare duckpin bowling alley.
Play Together at a Game Place
Board games are still hot and there are many places you can learn new games or play old favorites. There are gaming times at Indy area game stores but there are also game libraries where you can borrow board games to play on site!
Hit the Target with Archery
The Koteewi Archery Range will give you a bullseye when it comes to the best date ideas in Indy; shoot targets, 3D animal statues and more.
Free Arcade Game Play
Tappers Bar offers free arcade game play (pay for pinball) and a good selection of beers on tap. Expect to play arcade games from your childhood.
Laugh Your Brains Out
Comedy Sportz is more than just a comedy show, it’s an athletic feat of humor. Teams compete in improve situations. Expect a little audience participation.
Indoor trampoline courts are plentiful across the city. You can bounce, test your skills on a Ninja Warrior course and even dance the night away on a trampoline park turned night club in the evening at Sky Zone Fishers.
Naptown Roller Girls
If you’re looking for a fun sport to get wild about, cheer on the Naptown Roller Girls at a roller derby bout, Indianapolis’ women’s roller derby team. It gets intense, their names will give you a chuckle and the rules are easy to follow.
Escape with Your Date
Escape rooms have been very popular in recent years and the Indy area has several to choose from. Find adventure behind a locked door and solve the puzzle.
A Need for Speed
If fast is your thing, go-carting is your game. Race against one another and see who can get the faster time! There’s no blaming the wind or having the “slow car” this time!
Food + Drinks + Games
Dave and Busters could be a fun place to hang out if your date likes arcade games, happy hour specials and food that isn’t terrible.
Unique Date Ideas in Indy
DIY Tie Dye
The Tie Dye Lab in Avon is a fun spot to make your own designs on wearable garments and accessories. Get flirty as you customize t-shirts, towels, scarves and more. At the end of this date, you’ll have a souvenir to remember all the fun you had together.
Relax in a Salt Cave
Take a break from it all, lay back, hold hands and soak in the … salt. Salt caves in Indianapolis are growing in popularity, it’s a great way to relax and get your mind off of things while doing something that may or may not have health benefits. Visit a local salt cave for date night and save money when you get this deal on Groupon.
Throw Down at an Axe Throwing Place
Take out your frustrations with a little axe throwing. I’m not kidding. Bad Axe Throwing is the world’s biggest axe throwing club and offers axe throwing sessions for groups, events, or walk-ins. All necessary supplies are provided, you can bring in your own food and drinks, and safety training is included. Some sessions even include a dedicated axe throwing coach!
Blend Teas or Have a Boozy Tasting at Hoi Tea Toi Tea
HoiTEA ToiTEA is a tea drinker’s paradise + they have delicious snacks and lunch. But there’s more! We tried two of the signature events that HoiTEA ToiTEA is quickly becoming famous for; Tipsy Tastings & Treats and The Art & Science of Creating Your Own Tea. At the Tipsy Tastings event, guests learn about infusions and pairings while drinking a champagne tea cocktail (paired with a macaron), tea infused beer (paired with a warm cookie) and tea infused sangria (paired with a scone and devonshire cream.)
Tour Your Dream Home
Stop and and visit a model home or an open house in a neighborhood you’re interested in. Finecraft Builders offers tours of several models and layouts that are fun to visit and imagine living in. Enjoy a romantic evening planning your future.
City Market & the Catacombs
Book a tour of the Indianapolis City Market Catacombs or underground tunnels and learn about the history of that space. While you’re at the City Market, enjoy a bite to eat from some of Indy’s foodie favorites.
Drive-in Movies in Indy
Tibbs Drive-in, Canary Creek Drive-in and Skyline Drive-in are just a few of the handful of drive-in theaters near Indianapolis. Stick around for the double feature. Sit in your car or if the weather is great, cozy up on camping chairs.
Traders Point Creamery
The Loft restaurant and Dairy Bar have a fantastic atmosphere for a date night restaurant. If you’re feeling really adventurous, take the day time self guided walking tour or watch the cows come in to be milked at 7:30 pm.
Brugge Brasserie for a Crepe Date
Brugge Brasserie is a popular place to visit for special treats like their bottomless mussels, but we’re fans of visiting Brugge just for the dessert crepes! Gluten free crepes are available too!
Keystone Art Cinema
Located at the Fashion Mall, the Keystone Art Cinema offers a buffet of choices when it comes to independent films, foreign language films, documentaries and non-traditional studio films.
Cemetery Tours at Crown Hill
In addition to their amazing Memorial Day firing of the cannons and other ceremonies, Crown Hill Cemetery has tours that highlight the stories of interesting people who are buried there, symbolism tours, ghost stories and more. Plus, the view of the city of Indianapolis is one of the best, Crown Hill boasts the highest point in Indianapolis.
Ghost Tours That Spook and Scare
If you’re looking for a fun night full of legends, go on a local ghost tour. You’ll have a history lesson and be way more interesting at parties. This shared experience just might be something you talk about with your grandchildren.
You’re Macaron-ing Me Crazy
Macaron Bar offers macaron making classes as well as macaron pairings, like Champagne and macarons. If your sweetie has a sweet tooth, this is the perfect Indianapolis date! Yes, please!
Have a Picnic on the Freeway
The Idle Park is a place where people can sit and watch the traffic race by. The freeway viewing space has become a gathering area for the neighborhood. Bring some food or pick up something yummy nearby.
See Indy from Up High
The observation deck at the City County building isn’t always open, but when it is, it gives a really great view of our beautiful city. There are even some historical relics located up there. It’s an even more gorgeous view during the holiday season when it’s open for a few nights in the evening so you can glimpse the Circle of Lights tree on the Soldiers and Sailors Monument on Monument Circle.
Take a Cooking Class
William’s Sonoma offers cooking classes as do other Indianapolis area businesses. Ocean World Sushi has a sushi making class. Learn something, have a delicious meal and maybe even take home some leftovers! Sounds like a great date to me!
Romantic Date Ideas in Indy
U-Pick Flower Farm
There’s no better backdrop for a dreamy date than a flower farm. Forget bringing flowers to your date, take your date to the flowers so they can design their dream bouquet. We recommend Dollie’s Lavender and U-pick Flower Farm.
The Cake Bake Shop
This pretty and “enchanting” restaurant will set the tone for a beautiful time. The decor and atmosphere are unmatched anywhere in Indy, the food is delicious and the cakes are unforgettable.
Mama Carolla’s Italian Date Night
Voted one of the most romantic restaurants in the country, Mama Carolla’s serves up wonderfully delicious italian food in a beautiful space. The decor, the lighting, all of it feels so romantic and lovely. The patio seating is beautiful when it’s a little warmer.
This bistro style restaurant is a south side favorite for those looking to add romance to their evening. With fine wines and a seasonal menus, you’ll be happy you visited.
Best Movie Theaters for Date Night in Indy
Studio Movie Grill
Studio Movie Grill offers dinner and a movie + drinks. The latest movies to hit the big screen and a comfy seat with that beautiful red button that beckons a waiter to get you popcorn, drink refills or a hamburger. It’s all part of the all-inclusive date night. Get your $5 ticket here before you go!
For a fun spin on traditional movie watching, turn off Netflix and take your viewing party to the IMAX 3-D theater. There are a few, including one at the IMAX at the Indiana State Museum.
This cinema brewhouse offers movies + food + brews for a complete experience. Since the Flix Brewhouse target audience is adults, you won’t see kids under the age of 6 in the theater after 7pm and children under the age of 2 are not welcome except during special movie dates.
Casual Indy Date Night Restaurants
Pearl Street Pizzeria
This locally owned pie shop first opened downtown and just added a Geist location. While kids are definitely welcome at Pearl Street Pizzeria (they have a kids’ menu which includes gluten free options) it’s pub vibe makes it a great spot for a casual date night or dinner with friends. Handmade specialty pizzas, salad, and sandwiches pair perfectly with a large selection of local microbrews. A private party room with space for 60 makes this a great option for a celebration.
Chow Down in Broad Ripple at Condado Tacos
Famous for their imaginative ingredients for build you own tacos, flavored margaritas and beautiful wall murals, Condado Tacos is a must for Taco Tuesday or ANY day! When you go, order the dirty queso and be sure to say a little thank you to us! This is the perfect place to stop before or after a show at the Vogue.
Nada for a Downtown Indy Date Night
If you’re looking for cocktails and tacos, you’ve found the perfect pair. Nada serves up traditional mexican food with some flair. Foodies and non-foodies love this place.
Oaken Barrel on Indy’s South Side
Greenwood offers a fun culinary side and Oaken Barrel isn’t to be confused with Cracker Barrel (although we LOVE that place too). Their award winning beer pairs well with their delicious traditional food. Get their Dynamite Shrimp if you trust anything I’ve told you.
You could create your own pizza, but I know I’m satisfied with the amazing offerings and creations on the Bazbeaux Pizza menu. With three locations, you’ll find one near somewhere you want to be.
Date Night Ideas at the Theatre
Have Dinner AND a Show at Beef & Boards
From Broadway classics to Disney favorites and everything in between, Beef & Boards Dinner Theatre is a favorite for all ages to attend some of the best performances in Indy. Plus, their award winning dinner buffet, desserts and cocktails are a treat.
The IRT Wows
What’s on stage at the Indiana Repertory Theatre? It seems like there’s always something good on stage. The theatre is located in downtown Indianapolis, very close to some of the best hotels, restaurants and attractions in Indy. We’ll see you there!
Music Related Indy Date Ideas
Move to the Music at Ruoff Home Mortgage Music Center
This venue is HUGE in social media feeds during the summer because every week there’s a fantastic show that everyone is going to. Grab tickets to hear your favorite artist live on stage, or get to know someone new.
If you’re looking for Jazz and good food, the Jazz Kitchen in your kind of place.
The Biergarten at Rathskellar
Wednesday – Saturday you’ll find live music at the Rathskellar. What kind of music? Check their website because it varies! We love visiting to hear from Polkaboy and some local favorites. During the warmer months, you’ll hear music outside in their biergarten area.
Dueling Pianos that Make You Sing Along
Howl and the Moon and the Brick House both offer a fun evening of entertainment and music.
Overnight Date Ideas in Indy
Stay the Night at the JW Marriott
There’s no place like home, but the JW Marriott is even better! Amazing restaurants, walking distance to so many Indy attractions and fantastic service.
Winter Date Ideas in Indy
Go Ice Skating
There are a lot of Indy area ice skating rinks. You can go ice skating indoors or go ice skating outside. With everything from synthetic ice to real ice, you’re sure to find an ice skating rink near you. Find ice skating near me.
Snow Tubing will keep you close
Snow innertubing is not just for the young, everyone can enjoy the thrill of flying down a hill packed with ice. Find snow tubing near me.
Stroll Through the Christkindlmarkt
Walk around and look at gifts and trinkets in the Carmel Christkindlmarkt huts, drink hot wine from a boot and enjoy seasonal treats. If you’re really feeling fun, rent a pair of ice skates and twirl around the rink.
Drive Around and Look at Christmas Lights
If you find yourself looking for something to do during the holidays, pack up some hot cocoa and cookies and bring along our map and list of the best Christmas lights in Indy and visit a few! Maybe you’ll find some new displays that we don’t know about!
Bring your own sled for an afternoon or morning of fun. Pick a hill from our list of the best places to go sledding in Indy and then go for it!
Summer Date Ideas in Indy
Celebrate Love at the Indiana State Fair
Stroll down the midway, smooch on the ferris wheel, peruse the photography exhibits (for as long as you want), take a photo together in the photo booth at the Glass Barn, watch a show, eat whatever YOU want, check out Indiana Beer, Wine & Spirits in the Grand Hall. There’s a lot of fun at the fair for all ages — even WITHOUT kids! Here are some great discounts and free* days at the Indiana State Fair.
Root for the Home Team at a Baseball Game
Cheer on our Indianapolis Indians at Victory Field , look for fun themed nights. On select Thursdays, $20 gets you two craft beers and a lawn ticket. Sip on a WeeMac or a Cream Ale while watching the home team hit home runs!
Chill Out at the Monon Mixer
An exclusive, after-hours event at The Waterpark only for adults 21+. Enjoy The Waterpark in Carmel, with live music, pool volleyball, floating along the lazy river, testing your balance on the FlowRider(R), and more! Alcoholic beverages will be available for purchase. Please drink responsibly. The only thing missing from The Waterpark Monon Mixer are the kids!
Waterpark Takeover at Freedom Springs
The kids are gone and all that remains are your 21+ friends, beer & wine and good food! Bring your own towel, grab an inner-tube and float the night away to sounds of live music at the Freedom Springs Waterpark in Greenwood.
Live music and fresh seafood, all while enjoying the beautiful outdoors on the water. That’s the sort of ambiance that Rick’s Boatyard offers and it’s a favorite date spot in the summer months. Serving up american food on the waterfront, that’s what it’s all about.
Summer Beer Garden at Newfields
The Beer Garden at Newfields has been a summer favorite since it first opened. See the beauty of the Indianapolis Museum of Art while enjoying beer, wine or other beverages from the Beer Garden.
Strawberry picking, blueberry picking, raspberry and blackberries! There are so many options that stretch through the summer. Grab a basket and get picking! Chill out afterwards with a glass of wine, a handcrafted popsicle or whatever edible merch is sold in the farm shop.
Where to Grab a Drink in Indy
New Day Craft Mead & Cider
If you’re near Fountain Square, stop in for cider or specialty cocktails. A flight of drinks allows you to try several that peak your interest + it’s less than $10.
Tastings Wine Bar
This wine bar in downtown Indianapolis is fantastic for those who love wine or those who want to get to know wine. Guests can dispense different sample sizes from over 200 wines at automated tasting stations.
The Hotel Tango Tasting Room in the Fletcher Place neighborhood is a great place to sit and enjoy seasonal craft cocktails with your favorite date. Hotel Tango distills their own liquor and then creates cocktails using simple ingredients.
Also recommended by our friends who go on dates: Red Lion Grog House, Louie’s Wine Dive, Ball and Biscuit.